Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

Posted on April 15, 2010 at 06:01 PM (UTC) ( about 3 years ago);
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Why did this happen to me? Is there any reason or explanation for the SHITTY things that life throws at us. I have been dating this guy  for over 4 years, on and off. I was also planning on wwaiting until marriage to lose my virginity. Well one night this "wonderful" guy decides that when I am drunk at a party he is going to try and have sex with me. I don't blame him for it happening because I said yes, but he knew for 3 years now that Ive been wanting to wait. So we have sex. he becomes my boyfriend again and we start getting serious. He is such a jealous guy that it got to the point where I wasn't "allowed" to even say hi to any other guy. He would start huge fights when I would hang out with my girl friends even! He would get so mad at me if he even thought that I was talking to another guy that he would push me down and tell me that he's going to punch me because Im being a bitch.  this insecurity was happening because the fuck was cheating on me. And as a result of his cheating he brought herpes back home to me.. So now I have had sex with one man, and I have herpes because of his mistakes...I have no dating life. I try to date, but I could never tell anyone that I was interested in that I have herpes. The stigma is so mean, that I couldnt bear to see someones face if I told them. So I keep going back. I, just like all human beings, need to feel loved. And thats what he does for me. He "loves" me, and he also has herpes so it comforts me. I dont know anyone else who has it.. I feel so alone, and hopeless.. No one is ever going accept it.

 

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  1. RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

    Posted on April 16, 2010 at 02:38 AM (UTC) ( about 3 years ago )
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    575e93022e95f5db283eb49caf8036b3

    wrote the following:

    Fuck that cocksucker....the internet is huge. I am sure there is a website that people can meet that have herpies. I Am sorry that someone did this to you. It is a horrible thing but it isn't the end of the world. You can get online and meet other people who have the same problem you do. I would tell him to fuck off and if he ever hit you I would shoot him in the head.....self defense. Good luck to you.

    • RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

      Posted on April 18, 2010 at 07:09 AM (UTC) ( about 3 years ago )
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      F4f90162966637ac313dfc2db6776adf

      wrote the following:

      Thank you.. if you ever discover a time machine let me know.. I'll just go back in time so I can avoid this online herpes dating.

  2. RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

    Posted on April 24, 2010 at 03:23 AM (UTC) ( about 3 years ago )
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    0a2b869f15d7b0ae965d7940b3f61f01

    wrote the following:

    I know two people with it. They have good lives and wives. You will be okay!!!!!!!

  3. RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

    Posted on August 08, 2010 at 04:58 PM (UTC) ( almost 3 years ago )
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    D7ed2d3bdef6b9673e2e672f279db184

    wrote the following:

    Having the herpes doesn't declare you as a slut. It does however, declare that when given a choice to make between right & wrong you are the type to always make the wrong choice. Guys who are jealous when dating the way you described him don't know a thing about love. His jealousy for you makes you seem like his property or his slave, and that's probably exactly how you want it to be. Enjoy.

    • RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

      Posted on August 09, 2010 at 05:23 AM (UTC) ( almost 3 years ago )
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      2a4a6eb018c1bd570aac74c18701667f

      wrote the following:

      The above poster is a total douchbag.  You know what your post declares you as?  A douch who likes to kick people when they're down.  Blame the female victim  for her abuser's actions right?  FAGGOT

    • RE: Having herpes DOESN'T declare you a slut

      Posted on August 25, 2010 at 02:46 AM (UTC) ( over 2 years ago )
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      1bb2ebb72b58cbfc908a7c2269037af5

      wrote the following:

      What a judgmental ASS. Please ignore this guy. Everyone makes mistakes and I understand you feel trapped with him because he has herpes too. I am new to dating again and I was just told by someone they have herpes, I ask my doctor about it and he said the statistics are about 1 out of 10 people have it. So there are many good ones out there that may have gotten it the same as you and feel stuck too. The abuser wins if you stay, get out and find someone else! 

      Good Luck :)