Posted on July 01, 2009 at 08:10 PM (PDT)
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So for the first time ever I'm going to admit being scared. I'll give you the story behind everything first...
So I'm eighteen years old, really happy and have lots to look forward to. Only right now at this minute there is one small minute problem - a guy from work. We'll call him Mike. So Mike work's for my Parent's business and has done for around five years. He's different in the sense that he's a bit of a loner, different, and I guess in a way kind of creepy. He comes across as lovely but within a blink of an eye will stab you in the back. I found out he was going to take my parent's to court, which is the most fucked up thing ever as they dote on him giving him many privilages in and out of work - invites to family events, they even sometimes pay for things and do not request the money back.
So anyways, the reason I'm scared is, I think he like likes me. Yes i know that sounds pathetic but he's like 30. So what's been happening is the other day I was in a mega shit mood, I'd returned froma shopping trip and my mother was in a bad mood with me and I was also annoyed with my boyf...so obviously being a teenage girls with hormones i took it out on everyone around me - at my parents workplace. Mike happened to be there, and he kept asking questions to which i gave blunt uninterested replies too. He also always asks about the boyf which freaks me out. So anyways later on he ended up giving me a lift home (not my idea - my parents to ensure i got home safe) and so the whole journey I was quiet as cumon i couldnt be bothered already with anyone so you know made no effort, then he was all "have i done something to piss you off?" so I had replied "ummm no I just got up early and I'm nto in a greta mood and so cannot be bothered with anybody really" <<<pretty reasonable answer right? to which he then goes on to rant "look I know I can be a dick sometimes...." and I'm just thinking wtf... so I say "look I've had a shit day okay, its got nothing to bloody do with you!!" and then continue to rush into my home...
Then now i notice he keeps posting shit on facebook as his status and it clearly applies to me, and its kinna freaking the shit out of me.
Like
A) Why should he be bothered or react to the behavious of his bosses daughter?
B) He treats me and my sibling very differently, for instance will pick me up/drop me off at the snap of a finger
C) He's just plain fucking weird
D) He has nothing at all to do with me
E) My friend agree he's weird
F) I dont know what to do
G) If he left town right now, and i never seen him again I couldn't count my blessings enough...
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3 responses to I'm really scared because of this guy
RE: I'm really scared because of this guy
Posted on July 31, 2009 at 10:24 AM (PDT) ( 7 months ago )wrote the following:
He's a fuckin creep and u should tell ur parents everything he was prolly scammin to get a grip on u and take over ur instincts are totally right. avoid the prick and never look him in the eye he's evil ur parents should fire him if they havent already!!!!
RE: I'm really scared because of this guy
Posted on December 11, 2009 at 09:07 AM (PST) ( 2 months ago )wrote the following:
Yeah, you should let your parents know that he asks you inappropriate things & makes you feel very uncomfortable. Tell them you aren't comfortable being alone with him either, like when he gives you rides. I had a similar situation at work with this nasty older guy. I'm in my 20's & he was like 45 or something. He was also my boss. At this job at the end of the day we would all go to a local grill. Me lots of other co-workers, this creep. One day he gave me a ride there, we hung out with others, & he gave me a ride back to my car when everyone left. I shouldn't have done that. It was really foolish of me since he always gave me strange vibes. When we were in the car he came onto me & said some really inappropriate things, then told me if i said anything my job would be jeopardized. That was a really bad choice on my end, sounds like you don't have a choice when he offers a ride & your parents say it's okay. That's why you should tell them what is going on. Needless to say I quit that job. He started calling me all the time on my cell phone. It was a serious pain. Go with your instincts. Let your parents know asap. Try to never be alone with him if at all possible.
RE: I'm really scared because of this guy
Posted on December 22, 2009 at 09:25 PM (PST) ( 2 months ago )wrote the following:
You don't understand how misleading your communication is:
"ummm no I just got up early and I'm nto in a greta mood and so cannot be bothered with anybody really"
Just realize, that by lying to him here, you are sending out the vibe that HE is NOT the problem, when in your mind he really is. He assumes "not me, I can still pursue". You need to be honest and tell him "sorry, even tho I am flattered, I am not into you", and do it while one of your friends is nearby so that you are not alone with him.
Good luck.