Three things that will save your relationship. I was in a relationship for 3 years with a guy. This is how we kept it going for as long as we did. After the first 6 months to 1 year, lets all admit, the relationship may get boring. Ways to keep it interesting and spice it up are this: - Sex: try buying sexy lingerie; after an average day of texting him while he is at work with the usual boring conversation, keep it average as youre getting the lingerie so he doesnt know any different, then tell him to come over to hang out and talk or something, be on the bed, in the new outfit, rose petals leading to the bedroom and scattered on the bed with candles all around the room. He will definitely be all over it. Also try trying new positions, look some up online while youre home without him too. - Romance: when he is expected to be over at a certain time, make him a nice pasta dinner and buy roses to set on the table in a vase, dress in your best, do your make up and hair as if youre actually going out, get him nice clothes out to put on the bed because he will want to change when he gets home, as you finish dinner leave the dishes in the sink so you can go in the bedroom, ask him if he wants a massage and give him a good one with plenty of lotion. Get into it and try to rub under to his chest and under lower to his pelvis, then bring your body close enough to his back to kiss his shoulders to his neck, if that doesnt get him to turn around, idk what will. - Excitement: Go on a vacation. An amusement park specifically. Not one close by, but if you get a hotel and go to one a few hours away or more is great. Roller coasters by day, fun by night. This will work because i have experienced this too. Buy a weekend pass to a park and go for a couple days, but stay in the area for three or four days. Going to the park may be fun, but you may be worn out by the end of each day, but make the first night a relaxed, night in together. No sex, just dinner, a movie, cuddling, get plenty of rest for the next two days at the park. After the days at the park, make reservations for somewhere real nice, go, and come back and things are sure to heat up after a long nights rest due to not waking up to go to the park. Just be sure not to get burnt or the last night may be ruined! These are really the only three you need and you can base these scenarios around anything and mix them up anyway you want/can. It WILL work.