Need someone to talk to..!! HELP

Posted on August 08, 2012 at 05:18 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago);
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Lately i have been a bit confused about my sexuality. For about the past half year to a year i have been pulled towards girls more so than i have guys, i am a girl btw. when ever when i am watching movies or atv show where a girl kisses a girl my body gets the chills and the feeling inside me is just so powerful. but when its just a guy kissing a girl im just like what ever. i have also been having dreams were i am attracted to a girl and kissing them. So i dont really know what this means, like idk if i am actually lesbian and im just afraid to admit it to my self. i also feel like i cant talk to anyone about it because i dont really wanna bring that up and have people think im lesbian when im not...? i dont know im just really confused about this whole thing. Does any one have advice or any ideas on what i should do, please??! it would help alot....thanks!

 

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  1. RE: Need someone to talk to..!! HELP

    Posted on August 08, 2012 at 06:04 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago )
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    It is a cliché but you ARE allowed to experiment in secret. You would be surprised at just how many of us females have experienced same sex relationships for a period of time. Nothing is black and white, no-one expects you to make such a huge decision decidedly fast. In my mind your not a 'lesbian' until you say/know you are. Having confused thoughts and feelings makes you curious. This is normal. Have fun. Enjoy yourself. You can't know until you try anyway, can you? Take it easy.

  2. RE: Need someone to talk to..!! HELP

    Posted on August 13, 2012 at 03:29 AM (UTC) ( 9 months ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Look there is nothing wrong with being attracted to the opposite sex. One of my closer friends is gay, and though I know some people think its weird I am the kind of person who just doesn't see how it makes a difference. So just do whatever it best for you, if you are happy the people close to you will be happy. And you can just ignore this if you don't like idealists because I kinda am one. Hope my advice help =)