I met my girl (today wife) via a online porn webcam page (but I never had cam2cam sex with her). After we fell in love/came together she ended this job. We talked a lot about it and I need to say my wife was always honest and answered all questions. And I know she is honest and I trust her. She also said she felt that she will find her men via this page. To get over the past time was not that easy for me. We agreed to set a point and close the past. She deleted all contacts from the guys she was private in contact/touch/become her friends after she met them on the porn site told them that she is in realationship now etc.). There were not that many. Now, 2 years after, one guy she kicked out want to contact her again – request on FB. I need to say: with this guy she had several times online-sex, private contact and communication (at about the same time we met – but then we were not yet togehter) but HE stopped suddendly and did not contacted her further (and she did not know why). So she deleted him from her Facebook, Skype etc. Now she asked me if it is OK if she accept his request. She also told that she is not looking for communication with him. She said maybe he wants to appologise – she is just curious about why he stopped communication back then. For me for sure very surprising and kind of strange. We are married now, she said that the past is done, and now she will open this book with this guy again (ok, they were very close for a while). She said it is just about curious and that after she wants to say goodbye and is not looking for communication with him. But for me it doesnt make somehow sense: saying „I don’t wanna communication with him“ – but accepting him on FB so he can write a message what leads to communication… She said that I am overacting, making drama for nothing and that I have to go to a doctor. That she is not doing anything bad or a sin or whatever … But I can’t understand why she wants to reactivate that and also figure out why he stopped communication, rejected her back then? She said we make a point – past is past and not important to her anymore. … I need now advice/objective opinion if I am overacting, that I am wrong to think this is kind of strange behaviour? Especially in saying „I don’t wanna communication with him“ – but want to accept FB request what leads for sure to a message from him she has to answer = communication … How to understand this curiosness and rolling up this past? For sure it is not about that I think she wants to have relationship with him or whatever etc. … Thanks for reading and your objective point of view.
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