Okay, so I am a 22 year old women. And a virgin. I have been seeing this guy for about six mounths or so, It might be a little longer I havent been keeping track. And I finaly have made the decision to go through with it and sleep with him. I finaly feel like both my mind and body are ready for it. And the fact is that I feel like hes the right one to lose it to. I feel like all of this sounds stupid written out like this, but its just how I have felt about it. The thing that I need some advise on is that, well hes not a virgin. And that does not bother me but well, I am worried about the entire STD thing. The fact that I did not have that discussion with my previous boyfriends has left me ill equipped to have that conversation. In particuler, how to bring it up. He knows that he would be my first I have mentioned that fact to him, he was not bothered by it. And now I just want to know about the health factor. I want him, I just dont want something that will follow me my entire life and any other relasionships that I my have in the future. But I just want to know how I can bring that up and not make it feel like I am accuseing him of something. Like a nice way of asking about it. Just that, I dont really need to know how many girls hes been with. If you have some advise please comment. Thank you. A.