The slut

Posted on July 20, 2012 at 04:54 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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What do you do when the girl you love causes you pain and embarrassment. She has serious baggage and everyone around knows it. Trying to cope with it but her past is heavy. I don't want to be a fool. Should I ignore everything and love this girl or should I walk away? I know I'm the only one who can answer that but I'm afraid I might dig my own grave

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RE: The slut
Posted on July 20, 2012 at 10:48 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )

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I am that girl. I am a slut. I am with a man who I know I am emotionally crippling, I too am painfully aware of this. I've never needed or cared for anyone quite like him before. He knew my baggage from the start, this in fact was what attracted him to me. Now I am torn, let him continue hurting and walk away losing the only man to feel abhorrence towards hurting me. Or stay with him and know that I fall short of what he deserves. If you were my man I would detest the thought that being with me could be likened to digging your own grave. However, I am resigned to all I am in life and would urge you to move on despite how much I burn for you. Take from that what you will. You are right to recognise that no-one except yourself can give you advice. All I can say to you is that you know there are 'safer bets' in this world than silly whores with endless baggage. Can you hold on to what brought you together? Is that enough to declare that it doesn't matter what others think. In these instances there seems to be only two options your sanity or your partners.
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- RE: The slut
  Posted on July 21, 2012 at 01:00 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
  
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  WOW!! honestly haven't even read your post all the way but the fact that you used the word "TOO" correctly was a mad shocker. means your educated and a real catch (your current sexual delites with standing.) k so had to make mind and speak it. now on to read the rest of your post.
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- RE: The slut
  Posted on July 21, 2012 at 01:09 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
  
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  k so finally read rest of your post and sadly... your me different sex same story
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  - RE: The slut
    Posted on July 22, 2012 at 04:45 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
    
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    Do not be fooled by a fair grasp on spelling and grammar; should you feel like discovering how much of a 'catch' I am then please see 'Wild Horses Can Drag Me Away'. That is if you feel like wasting a large proportion of your life that you won't get back... even I wouldn't reccommend it. I have no idea whether you take 'different sex, same story' to be a good or bad thing. I also do not know why it would be 'sad' to be you. I hope being you isn't sad, or if it is, you find sadness to be only temporary turbulance. Hope it works out for you. (Never befriend sluts!!!!!)
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RE: The slut
Posted on July 21, 2012 at 10:38 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )

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if you love her unconditionally and your absolutely positive you love her then try to make it work. if not move on. it will be hard but think about the positive and negative things about your relationship and if your truly happy with her before you decide to move on.
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RE: The slut
Posted on July 22, 2012 at 03:07 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )

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give her a chance to prove tht her history is history you might be givin up but if you give up on love you give up on life people deserve chances.. no one likes a broken heart
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