i always feel like i have to change my hair/clothes/personality because one of those things for too long gets old. which i might add is very tiring & stressful. sometimes when i see a really pretty girl i dress like her .. then the other day i was looking at my friends pictures on facebook and she was the type that dressed kind of lazily; tee shirts, basketball shorts, beanies, etc. . and i felt that i should dress like her. i hope this is just my age; i am a teenager afterall.. if it's not my age im really gonna hate myself more than i already do. i always feel like im never good enough.. if you couldnt have already guessed. im kind of shy, so when i try to make new friends it just gets fuckin awkward . ugh... there's so much more .. but im going to stop until next time... any advice on how to not be shy ? also, is it just the age that im at that makes me wanna be like everyone else ? please help me on how to be MYSELF .