She's the one i want... not my girlfriend

Posted on July 16, 2012 at 04:09 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago);
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i don't know what to do. my girlfriend isn't the girl that i want. she's really nice and pretty fun to be around but i just dont know if i can be with her knowing that i really want to be with my ex. her and i only were together for about a week but 2 months of talking lead to being official.shes perfect for me. but apparently she thought otherwise. granted things were a little weird. we didnt talk much because i didnt want to say the wrong thing to her and ruin everything we had. but i wanted her. i needed her in my arms. i cried i admit. im a bit of a softee when it comes down to it. but im still strong if i want to be. shes amazing in every way i look at her. her personality is the most beautiful one ive known. shes gorgeous. a model but that doesnt matter to me. but ive been stuck in the past thinking of her for about 9 months now. ive been with my girlfriend for 7. we say we love each other but i dont. love isnt something that grows between 2 people. you dont love too many people in your lifetime... maybe like them beyond belief. but love is set aside for the select few that mean more than the world to me. (at least thats how i think of love) but her and i just do things for pleasure. its not love. when we're together, its not like hey lets go in the pool. lets catch a movie... its lets go to your bedroom. shes not my type. but she loves me. lately we've been on each other's nerves so i want to take this time to end it but i dont know what i want to do. any help? anyone been in a similar situation?

 

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  1. RE: She's the one i want... not my girlfriend

    Posted on July 16, 2012 at 04:18 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago )
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    ahhh I've never been in that situation before, but from reading that I honestly think you should end things with your girlfriend. If you don't actually love her, and you can't see being with her forever or anything like that, it's best to end things before things get worse. With the ex girlfriend, I... don't know. I think it is really sweet, yet at the same time are you going to tell her this? Take the chance and maybe things might change if you feel so strongly about her? I know this probably isn't the most helpful thing to say, but good luck with everything and I hope everything works out for the best.

  2. RE: She's the one i want... not my girlfriend

    Posted on July 16, 2012 at 06:54 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago )
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    Definitely ends things with your girlfriend, it's a bit unfair that you're leading her on and before she gets way to envolved in your relationship. Also with ending that relationship you will have a weight lifted off your shoulders and have time to really think about your feelings about your ex. You may also need to figure out whether it is true love or nostalgia, i know i had this with my ex, but it took me some time to realise i didn't miss him at all in fact, i miss the moments, excitement and times we spent together when realistically that could of just been one of my friends. I hope this is making sense... But, by all means if it is true love, what are you waiting for?

  3. RE: She's the one i want... not my girlfriend

    Posted on July 16, 2012 at 07:47 AM (UTC) ( 10 months ago )
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    Tell the girl you with right now whats on your mind. the conversation will be a Great experience for you both how to be honest and open about things. If youll learn that i promise all your life will be so much better