Divorce?

Posted on July 12, 2012 at 08:30 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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I have been married for 12 years. I have never truly loved the man, not like one should love there spouse. I love him for being the father of our 2 girls, and for many other good things about him, but we don't get a long very often, and we have very little in cOmmon. I feel unfulfilled, and latley my heart seems to be screaming at me what it has always whispered the entire rekationship- that I should go. I really dont have family support.. And am worried about my kids. I just got certified in school, but don't have a job yet. I don't know how to tell him, or what to do, where to go.. No money, I just don't know.

 

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  1. RE: Divorce?

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 03:36 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    My mother went through this the hard way. 3 children were involved. she didn't have much money. she got a restrainning order on him and he had to leave the house. we were always worried about him coming back and hurting our mother so we'd sleep with her. make sure when you do this you have money so your not stuck where he lives... follow your heart but use your head too. try to make some money then you can go through with this because without any money how are you going to get a lawyer if he tries to fight for custody of your children? good luck follow your heart..

  2. RE: Divorce?

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:34 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    I agree one hundred percent with the first poster. My mom got totally screwed during her divorce. That whole stereotype that the husband gets screwed and women get away with everything is total lies. I have rarely heard of the men getting screwed. Save up some money first. So you have something to fall back on in case it gets nasty. You never ever know. Divorce can become ugly when you don't expect it at all. Get yourself a job maybe even something part time and just keep the money for yourself. Do what your base instincts tell you.