What do i do?????

Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:59 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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my ex ex boyfriend and i took a break. I dated another guy. He had sex with another girl. He wants to get together again. It bothers me he had sex with another girl....I did my own thing too. but idk what to think or do....help!

 

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  1. RE: What do i do?????

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 01:51 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    Fc4b07491efbf834588efe830de1cad2

    wrote the following:

    Well, you need to just accept that you two weren't together. :/ It bothered me too though when I found out my ex hooked up with somebody after I dumped him but at the end of the day you two weren't together he didn't betray you, just like you didn't betray him. So take a deep breath relax. And if he is a good guy get back with him.

    • RE: What do i do?????

      Posted on July 12, 2012 at 03:37 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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      6135e8ea4d6cf093d65ce8ca14953761

      wrote the following:

      The problem is that he cheated on me during our relationship too..so hard to trust. Swears he different :( but idk if he is..

      • RE: What do i do?????

        Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:23 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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        Fc4b07491efbf834588efe830de1cad2

        wrote the following:

        Well if he cheated on you while you were together that does change things. Historically people who have tried to make it work after cheating need to really really change things up, like go to a couples councilor or something else. Its very hard to learn to completely trust the cheater again. On the hand relationships that start based off of an affair, like he cheated with the stripper than he hooks up with said stripper. Usually they fail because of the paranoia that if the partner cheated once he can cheat again. You need to look deep inside yourself and if you really have a problem with it and can't trust him I would not get back into the relationship.

        • RE: What do i do?????

          Posted on July 13, 2012 at 12:49 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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          6135e8ea4d6cf093d65ce8ca14953761

          wrote the following:

          thank you so much! :) your a great help