I Keep Messing Up..

Posted on July 12, 2012 at 12:29 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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okayy. so this may be a little long.., Well it all started when I went to a party with my best friend and her boy friend. Ok well at this party I met this guy..Alex, we talked, I told him that I have a boyfriend. we continued to talk until we left the party. I went home and Alex was all I could think about for the next few days. Well I got invited to a small hotel party.. I lied to my boyfriend to get out of our movie date and just told him that I didn't feel well so i was just gonna sleep it off.. that night i got drunk and had sex with Alex. i spent the whole next day we hung out by the pool and acted all "couply". I broke up with my boyfriend for a month and then we decided to get back together . see the problem is that alex still calls me up and he comes to get me. we "party" do the deed.. and dont talk until the next time it happens. but i really do kinda like alex. but i really love my boyfriend i've been with him for almost 2 years and we've discussed marriage, living together, and having a family.. i just dont know what to do. .. . im an awful person.. ! :/

 

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  1. RE: I Keep Messing Up..

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 12:31 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    0dd9fc358aa622d5e361fcb39324189a

    wrote the following:

    i wrote this. im 16 my boyfriend is 17 and alex is 21..

  2. RE: I Keep Messing Up..

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 01:50 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    1906062e103bd93aec2f16a6a79036a4

    wrote the following:

    Well, if you're sixteen like the comment below says, than Alex seems a bit old for you. In fact, twenty-one on sixteen is statutory rape. Not only that, but if he doesn't talk to you unless you have sex, then he's probably just using you for your body. It's seems like a fling. If it were me, I'd stay with the guy who wants to talk to me and who I can be honest and 100% me with, someone who could make me laugh, like a best friend that I could occasionally make out with (teehee!) But you gotta see who is more honest with you and ask them things. Does Alex tell you about who he's been with? Why does he want to hook up with you? What about your boyfriend? Why does he want to be with you? You need to be with the one who makes you feel good, and who you want to make feel good. But no matter who you choose, be responsible!

  3. RE: I Keep Messing Up..

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 02:35 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    C2214028cacaa3324cc4501e8192e260

    wrote the following:

    Once you have sex with a guy you are always going to have feelings for them, but seriously use some willpower and stop cheating on your boyfriend to have sex with someone who at this point you are just his booty call. tell your boyfriend about alex and then tell him that you are sorry and it is over between you and alex, then stop acting like a whore (not saying you are one, just acting like one) and actually spend your time having a relationship with your boyfriend. try having sex with him for once. you will find it much more enjoyable. then take alex to court for rape

  4. RE: I Keep Messing Up..

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:29 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    Ca346eea486e50f7b7c86738ed3c1629

    wrote the following:

    cut off all ties with alex if you want your relationship to work!! believe me, there's ways you can do it. You can block him from your cell phone and your problems will go away:) best of luck!!

  5. RE: I Keep Messing Up..

    Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:39 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    Ca346eea486e50f7b7c86738ed3c1629

    wrote the following:

    Don't let these people put you down... your just young and they clearly don't understand. Your not a bad person everyone makes mistakes!! keep your head up and cut off all ties with alex! save your relationship:)