i love my boyfriend and i have to stay with him. i do love him and i don't understand why he hurts me. he has texted many other girls saying if he wasnt with me if they'd kiss him. and he lies constantly. he treats me like im cheating on him but he keeps doing this. and he did this on facebook to those girls. i read his messages to her. because he kept doing this to me. and the same day he messaged me saying how he loved me and missed me. and he says he's changed but he also said he changed 6 times before. i love him. i know deep down that he doesn't want to hurt me. i just wish he'd stop and care more about me. how can i get him to love me and stop him from doing this and how can i recover from this pain.