He keeps cheating on me.

Posted on July 06, 2012 at 06:09 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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i love my boyfriend and i have to stay with him. i do love him and i don't understand why he hurts me. he has texted many other girls saying if he wasnt with me if they'd kiss him. and he lies constantly. he treats me like im cheating on him but he keeps doing this. and he did this on facebook to those girls. i read his messages to her. because he kept doing this to me. and the same day he messaged me saying how he loved me and missed me. and he says he's changed but he also said he changed 6 times before. i love him. i know deep down that he doesn't want to hurt me. i just wish he'd stop and care more about me. how can i get him to love me and stop him from doing this and how can i recover from this pain.

 

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  1. RE: He keeps cheating on me.

    Posted on July 06, 2012 at 08:38 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    some guys are just **insensitive** and they dont care how much they hurt us, they think off well if she loves me well enough they wont leave me no matter what i do... but ehy dont understand we will eventually leave. if you really wanna stay with him hun, go ahead but if he hurts u he isnt worth ur time. you sound like a nice girl and deserve wayyy better. be strong and do what ur mind **and** heart telll u becuz if u listenj to ur heart it will say stay with him. if you listen to ur mind it will say leave him. so if you listen to both, who knows what it will say... ONLY you (:

  2. RE: He keeps cheating on me.

    Posted on July 06, 2012 at 02:52 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    49f60fca85b7005048cbef410d995819

    wrote the following:

    Relationships are about give and take. If he is making you feel bad and constantly lying to you then you don't need him. Make a pros and cons list and make sure you put how much of each thing on the list means to you.

  3. RE: He keeps cheating on me.

    Posted on July 06, 2012 at 04:52 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    wrote the following:

    the thing is i had already worked out if he was worth all this pain. and he sees what he's done. and he is changing. i hate to have to go through this. i appreciate your guys' help but i was also looking for advice on what i should do to make sure this doesn't happen again and how to get over the pain. and thank you again.

  4. RE: He keeps cheating on me.

    Posted on July 07, 2012 at 12:23 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    Talk to him about or get a friend to talk to him about it. Don't sit there and let him cheat on you and treat you like crap! I wouldn't take it. The first time he cheated or lied I would've said it's over. Yes you love him and that's why you should give him a chance to EXPLAIN himself but not let him off the hook. After you guys talk and he does the same thing...end it.

  5. RE: He keeps cheating on me.

    Posted on October 03, 2012 at 06:45 PM (UTC) ( 8 months ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Hi, I feel for you as I'm going through the same thing myself, it's been 3 yrs and I've caught him twice, not to mention all the countless times I've seen text messages between him and other females, and they send pictures, all kinds of things. He has Only admitted to 1 time, just recently. That's only because I saw all the pictures she posted of them all over facebook! That's the only reason he came clean, but wasn't honestly sorry, he still seeing this same girl, he had laying in our bed. He's out right now seeing her. So I wish you the best Really do, I have to figure out what I'm going to do Myself!