Don't make this about legality.

Posted on July 01, 2012 at 05:23 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago);
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So I'm 14 years old, but I've been through a lot of real world shit that has made me have to grow up a lot quicker than most. I've always been attracted to older guys, but this most recent I've really fallen for. But here's the catch, he's 19. I don't mind it at all, but everyone else seems to have a huge problem with it. My brother has the most concern with it. He already doesn't like the guy because of some decisions he's made in the past, but the age thing is a huge problem. My brother has threatened to remove me from his life if I don't stop talking to this guy. My brother is my best friend. The guy has really done nothing wrong to me though, and seems to have pure intentions. I've told him I'm a virgin and have no interest in giving that up. He is completely okay with that, and supports me. And he knows my views alcohol/drugs/ect. He even quit smoking for me. But now I'm left with this huge decision to make, and it's quite frankly scaring the shit out of me.

 

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  1. RE: Don't make this about legality.

    Posted on July 03, 2012 at 01:39 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
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    hey sweet heart its hard for the people that love you to understand that your growin up but its also verry hard to realize that no matter how bad you want to grow up patience is still a virtue my advice to you would be to end it with this 19 year old not forever of coarse and if he truley loves you he will wait i waited five years to bag the person of my dreams and when i finaly got that person it was deifently worth the wait if your 14 i knw it seems like 4 years would never come fast but i assure you time flys and hopefully he will be your prince charming im sure that would change your brothers mind :) god bless