So I have been seeing this guy for just over a month now. We met in one of my classes in college. It all started when I needed to get some shopping done, he asked if he could come along. I said yes and we met there, we walked arond the shopping center in our town. We talked and laughed and just had fun. This happened a couple of times and then one time when he walked me back to my car he kissed me. Just out of the blue. We made out a little. Untill I really needed to go home. So since then we have been to lunch and dinner a few times. And have seen a few movies together. Pretty much the olny things there is to do in the small town we both live in (I mean really blink and you'll miss it). We had fun he held my hand throughout the entire movie and afterwords we still make out and other things, in the backseat of his car. Really the secound that our lips touch each other it takes alot to push us apart. It's all passion and trying to get at as much skin as possible, forget that your in public. And It's all been fun and all but I want to know what is going on with us. I mean our texts are kind of short, and so are our phone conversations. And ever since school ended we dont see each other nearly as much as I would like. Despite what we have done I haven't slept with him. I don't want to untill I know what our relasionship truly is. I dont know weather he wants me as a friend with benefits or if he wants be to be his girlfriend. I cant do the friend with benefits thing I just can't. It's just not me. the entire thing is that I get really frustrated with the entire thing. Because when this guy looks at me, the look in his eyes, its like he loves me. But I don't want to trust my own jugement on that. Maybe I just read too much into it. So what do you think? Is it just passion that he wants or dose he he truly want me? Please help, A.J.