Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

Posted on May 13, 2012 at 01:44 AM (UTC) ( about 1 year ago);
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I've had this teacher for 3 years. We've grown really close over the years. Every morning he hugs me, tells me how pretty I am, and tells me he loves me. We kid around like best friends, and sometimes he even kisses me on my forehead or my cheek and holds me. He taught me how to ballroom dance, and we dance constantly. He tells other teachers and me that I'm his favorite student. He sees me as a daughter like figure, but I see him way more than that. He's a lot, and when I say a lot, I do mean a lot, older than I am. I know it's wrong, but I can't help loving him, and wanting to be with him. I don't want to feel or think like this anymore, because it's so wrong on so many levels! Help me! Has anyone else ever been in this situation?

 

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  1. RE: Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

    Posted on May 13, 2012 at 02:47 AM (UTC) ( about 1 year ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Uh, I have been in a situation like this but the teacher was not hugging or kissing me. You are right. It is wrong! I know how painful it will be for you to stop spending so much time with him but you need to. If you have him for a class, you will have to suck it up and go to class. Again, I emphasize I have been in this situation before. I was deeply in love with one of my instructors but he never hugged me or kissed me. I know the feelings you are having. The guilt over it being so wrong but still desperately wishing it would happen. But at the end of the day he is much much older than you and he could very easily manipulate you. I know its hard to think of him doing these negative things but you never know. And even if his intentions where good IF you are under age he could lose his job and go to prison. It will be so hard cutting him off and you will be tempted to go back but DON'T. Stop visiting him before school and after school and in between classes. The only time you should see him is when you need to be in his classroom for his class. He is not being professional by kissing you on the forehead or hugging you. I know it will break your heat to hear it but that is a very very bad sign. If you nip it in the bud there will be no serious consequences but if you start a relationship with him there will be. I know this will be difficult, I have been there and I know its an enormous burden to carry around those emotions. But you already know about this wonderful website! IF you need to vent on here everyday, every five minutes. DO IT. This is a wonderful resource and it will help you. Everything will be okay but you need to stop spending so much time with him. It will take a long time for your heart to heal, I won't lie to you but it really is for the best. You have to trust me.

  2. RE: Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

    Posted on May 13, 2012 at 02:47 AM (UTC) ( about 1 year ago )
    replies: 0
    2ce09adb99f386522ed55592a4fcfc64

    wrote the following:

    Uh, I have been in a situation like this but the teacher was not hugging or kissing me. You are right. It is wrong! I know how painful it will be for you to stop spending so much time with him but you need to. If you have him for a class, you will have to suck it up and go to class. Again, I emphasize I have been in this situation before. I was deeply in love with one of my instructors but he never hugged me or kissed me. I know the feelings you are having. The guilt over it being so wrong but still desperately wishing it would happen. But at the end of the day he is much much older than you and he could very easily manipulate you. I know its hard to think of him doing these negative things but you never know. And even if his intentions where good IF you are under age he could lose his job and go to prison. It will be so hard cutting him off and you will be tempted to go back but DON'T. Stop visiting him before school and after school and in between classes. The only time you should see him is when you need to be in his classroom for his class. He is not being professional by kissing you on the forehead or hugging you. I know it will break your heat to hear it but that is a very very bad sign. If you nip it in the bud there will be no serious consequences but if you start a relationship with him there will be. I know this will be difficult, I have been there and I know its an enormous burden to carry around those emotions. But you already know about this wonderful website! IF you need to vent on here everyday, every five minutes. DO IT. This is a wonderful resource and it will help you. Everything will be okay but you need to stop spending so much time with him. It will take a long time for your heart to heal, I won't lie to you but it really is for the best. You have to trust me.

  3. RE: Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

    Posted on May 13, 2012 at 05:31 AM (UTC) ( about 1 year ago )
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    wrote the following:

    you really want to have sex with your own father don't you ? for christsakes use a condom when you get stupid and screw the old guy

  4. RE: Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

    Posted on May 13, 2012 at 05:49 AM (UTC) ( about 1 year ago )
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    wrote the following:

    come just fuck the old bastard you just might enjoy it

  5. RE: Help, I'm in love with my teacher....

    Posted on May 24, 2012 at 02:06 PM (UTC) ( 12 months ago )
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    wrote the following:

    wow it's super cuz im in love with my teacher and i cannot even speak to him....