Whys it so hard to orgasm?

Posted on July 04, 2008 at 04:11 PM (PDT) ( 65 days, 6 hours ago )
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Seriously, ive just gotten myself a new boyfriend and hes actually AMAZING in bed. Theres no denying it. I can sometimes feel myself nearly coming to an orgasm, you know where you need to pee? But then i cant bring myself to actually come. It kills me because im not going to start faking but i really need/want to come. Is there something wrong with me?

Does anyone have any tips on helping me come during intercourse?

x

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  1. RE: Whys it so hard to orgasm?

    Posted on July 04, 2008 at 04:16 PM (PDT) ( 65 days, 6 hours ago )
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    wrote the following:

    Masturbate more frequently.

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    Posted on July 04, 2008 at 04:20 PM (PDT) ( 65 days, 6 hours ago )
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    masterbate during sex. dont be afraid to get yourself there.

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    Posted on July 04, 2008 at 04:40 PM (PDT) ( 65 days, 6 hours ago )
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    wrote the following:

    you're probably pushing too hard.  If you're already good at masturbating, go ahead and masturbate during intercourse.  Get one of those pocket rockets and use it on your clit while you're having intercourse with him.

     

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    Posted on July 04, 2008 at 10:33 PM (PDT) ( 65 days, 21 minutes ago )
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    wrote the following:

    I have the same damn problem! I understand ur frustration!!

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    Posted on July 05, 2008 at 05:36 AM (PDT) ( 64 days, 17 hours ago )
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    wrote the following:

    I appreciate your help and all of that but i dont want to come by clitoral stimulation, i can do that on my own fine and with other people fine. Its vaginal orgasms i need!!!!!!

    Damn sex, its so complicated.

    x

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  6. RE: Whys it so hard to orgasm?

    Posted on July 05, 2008 at 06:54 AM (PDT) ( 64 days, 15 hours ago )
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    wrote the following:

    I have that same problem, except without a second person, and I'm a dude.

     But basically the same problem.

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    Posted on July 07, 2008 at 09:27 PM (PDT) ( 62 days, 1 hour ago )
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    Ok honey, here is my advice!

     

    None of this "masterbate" crap.  Honestly, My husband is the only person that has ever given me and orgasm, and it happened after we had sex like three times a day for two months. Oh and I've never had a orgasm by masterbation...i just think that what works for some, doesn't for others.

    Here is what you need to do. When you are having sex, think dirty thoughts. Think about the person you are with, and what they are doing...let your mind be clear of anything else. Don't be thinking about typical women stuff, "do i look fat in this position, am I making a weird face, is my breath as fresh as it could be?" If your thinking about anything else besides what going on, its not going to happen. 

     Hope this helps!

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