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1. RE: What do i do?????

   Posted on July 12, 2012 at 01:51 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
   

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   Well, you need to just accept that you two weren't together. :/ It bothered me too though when I found out my ex hooked up with somebody after I dumped him but at the end of the day you two weren't together he didn't betray you, just like you didn't betray him. So take a deep breath relax. And if he is a good guy get back with him.

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   • RE: What do i do?????

     Posted on July 12, 2012 at 03:37 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
     

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     The problem is that he cheated on me during our relationship too..so hard to trust. Swears he different :( but idk if he is..

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     • RE: What do i do?????

       Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:23 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
       

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       Well if he cheated on you while you were together that does change things. Historically people who have tried to make it work after cheating need to really really change things up, like go to a couples councilor or something else. Its very hard to learn to completely trust the cheater again. On the hand relationships that start based off of an affair, like he cheated with the stripper than he hooks up with said stripper. Usually they fail because of the paranoia that if the partner cheated once he can cheat again. You need to look deep inside yourself and if you really have a problem with it and can't trust him I would not get back into the relationship.

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       • RE: What do i do?????

         Posted on July 13, 2012 at 12:49 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
         

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         thank you so much! :) your a great help

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1. RE: What do i do?????

   Posted on July 12, 2012 at 03:37 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
   

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   The problem is that he cheated on me during our relationship too..so hard to trust. Swears he different :( but idk if he is..

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   • RE: What do i do?????

     Posted on July 12, 2012 at 05:23 PM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
     

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     Well if he cheated on you while you were together that does change things. Historically people who have tried to make it work after cheating need to really really change things up, like go to a couples councilor or something else. Its very hard to learn to completely trust the cheater again. On the hand relationships that start based off of an affair, like he cheated with the stripper than he hooks up with said stripper. Usually they fail because of the paranoia that if the partner cheated once he can cheat again. You need to look deep inside yourself and if you really have a problem with it and can't trust him I would not get back into the relationship.

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     • RE: What do i do?????

       Posted on July 13, 2012 at 12:49 AM (UTC) ( 11 months ago )
       

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       thank you so much! :) your a great help

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