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  1. Uh, I have been in a situation like this but the teacher was not hugging or kissing me. You are right. It is wrong! I know how painful it will be for you to stop spending so much time with him but you need to. If you have him for a class, you will have to suck it up and go to class. Again, I emphasize I have been in this situation before. I was deeply in love with one of my instructors but he never hugged me or kissed me. I know the feelings you are having. The guilt over it being so wrong but still desperately wishing it would happen. But at the end of the day he is much much older than you and he could very easily manipulate you. I know its hard to think of him doing these negative things but you never know. And even if his intentions where good IF you are under age he could lose his job and go to prison. It will be so hard cutting him off and you will be tempted to go back but DON'T. Stop visiting him before school and after school and in between classes. The only time you should see him is when you need to be in his classroom for his class. He is not being professional by kissing you on the forehead or hugging you. I know it will break your heat to hear it but that is a very very bad sign. If you nip it in the bud there will be no serious consequences but if you start a relationship with him there will be. I know this will be difficult, I have been there and I know its an enormous burden to carry around those emotions. But you already know about this wonderful website! IF you need to vent on here everyday, every five minutes. DO IT. This is a wonderful resource and it will help you. Everything will be okay but you need to stop spending so much time with him. It will take a long time for your heart to heal, I won't lie to you but it really is for the best. You have to trust me.

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