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In response to RE: Am I a bad person? , someone wrote:

  1. Am sorry that Josh died.. You, sarah and katie should forgive each other and be friends! (advice from an african guy)

1 reply to RE: Am I a bad person?

  1. I found this whole situation really moving. You should not be beating yourself up so much. First of all you are not the bad guy, but it was not appropriate to punch 'Katie' in the face. But at the end of the day that was a really chaotic and emotional time for ALL OF YOU. So Sarah, should forgive you. People do crazy things when deaths occur. You may not have been in love with Josh, but you were still friends and you knew he was important to Katie. You apologized to Katie and Katie forgave you. So Sarah now has no right to be holding this anger against you. She was not involved with the punching incident so she should forgive now that Katie has. You did the right thing when you tired to stop their relationship. That is rape, what happened to Katie. And in the long run that relationship would've been very toxic. And lets face it, Josh cheated while he was with Katie. He was not good for her. We all make mistakes but the only one you made was punching Katie and you apologized for it! This is a really traumatizing event you should see a therapist.
    • Thank you, thank you so much, i really had no idea what i was doing and i was completely lost. You wouldn't believed how much this helped me. i really appreciate getting an unbiased point of view.